positive psychology

Listening and learning

December 22nd, 2011  |  Published in Coaching, Emotional intelligence, Leadership skills, Management skills, Measuring Performance, Self awareness, appraisal, positive psychology

In this great article, the writer explains the physiology behind how we listen and how we interpret what we hear.  It’s certainly hard to stand back and listen objectively, and we can be very selective with what we hear, and what we do about it.

People can made immediate assumptions about what they think you’re telling them, and respond less than positively.

Good listening skills are a critical skill set that successful leaders, managers and influencers all demonstrate frequently or almost  all the time.They’re also one of the key skills that, with a bit of work, can complement and enhance someone who’s already got a broad range of good management or leadership skills.  A good way to become a better listener is to ask your colleagues to tell you each time they catch you not listening for what they’re trying to tell you, or ignoring their messages.  Becoming aware of this habit through feedback can help you to change and improve those critical skills.

Coaching and 360 Degree Feedback are key learning tools for executives

September 12th, 2011  |  Published in 360 Degree Feedback and Training Needs Analysis, 360 appraisal, Even Smart People Need Feedback, Leadership skills, Self awareness, positive psychology

This article sets out the benefits of coaching for executives and managers.

Coaching is a critical learning experience because it incorporates a large element of self-evaluation and reflection.

Many executives and managers are generally too busy and under pressure to take the time out themselves to reflect on their performance,strengths and areas they need to change.

360 Degree Feedback is a highly complementary tool to coaching, as it adds the observations and perceptions of the individual’s colleagues to the process of reflection and discussion with the coach.

Many of our client organisations use 360 Degree Feedback both to inform coaching discussions, and also, as described here, to evaluate the results of coaching by running 360 before and after the coaching sessions.

Have you been asked to give your colleague 360 Degree Feedback? Here are the key things we tell our clients…..

April 19th, 2011  |  Published in 360 Degree Feedback, 360 Degree Feedback and Objective Setting, 360 appraisal, 720 Degree Feedback, Coaching, Even Smart People Need Feedback, Feedback, Feedback for the boss, Feedforward, Giving 360 Degree Feedback, Overcoming bias with 360 Degree Feedback, Self awareness, Strengths based 360, appraisal, employee engagement and 360 degree feedback, feedback and motivation, positive psychology

We are often asked to brief people in our client organisations about the best way to give feedback in a 360 Degree Feedback exercise.

Here’s a link to a short video that explains the key areas and some hints and tips for giving great 360 feedback.

Judging our colleagues and their performance

September 23rd, 2010  |  Published in 360 Degree Feedback, 360 appraisal, 720 Degree Feedback, Feedback, Feedback for the boss, Giving 360 Degree Feedback, Management skills, Measuring Performance, Measuring potential, Overcoming bias with 360 Degree Feedback, Self awareness, Training Management, appraisal, positive psychology

This is a summary of some research that’s been done on how people feel at different levels of
hierarchy, how it affects their behaviour, and how they can make a change.

- How changing your posture can stimulate or reduce the hormones that make you feel powerful
or powerless
This was something we learned many years ago with NLP but now it’s proven to be physiological.

- How we judge the people we work with: there’s a balance between how much we like them
(warmth) and how well they do their job.  The article emphasises the importance of the relationship; the danger is that too much warmth can cloud our judgement of someone’s performance, i.e. the halo effect, or too little empathy and the horns effect.

- “WhatPeople often are more influenced by how they feel about you than by what you’re saying.
It’s not about the content of the message, but how you’re communicating it”.

So our emotions can hijack us and this can affect how we judge our colleagues.  Building our emotional awareness and getting feedback on our behaviours, using tools such as 360 Degree Feedback, is essential.

Anonymous or open 360 Degree Feedback?

September 15th, 2010  |  Published in 360 Degree Feedback, 360 appraisal, Anonymous 360 Degree Feedback, Coaching, Employee engagement, Feedback, Feedback for the boss, Giving 360 Degree Feedback, Overcoming bias with 360 Degree Feedback, Self awareness, Team Performance, Training Management, positive psychology

In this article, the writer states that 360 Degree Feedback should never be anonymous.  I disagree!

Whilst, ideally, we should all be mature enough to accept feedback directly from our colleagues - active acceptance is a lovely idea but somewhat unrealistic. 

As a 360 Degree Feedback designer, practitioner and coach, I know that it takes at least a couple of years to build employees’ and managers’ confidence in their organisation’s feedback processes - as well as in the the broader culture of management, accountability, and whether people get help or get pulped when they make a mistake.

I fear the writer is missing the big point of 360 Degree Feedback here: the point of 360 is not to avoid feedback from your colleagues (although I admit that it’s sometimes used like this). 

The point about 360 Degree Feedback is that it collates trends and consistent messages that are coming from many people, not just one, and therefore can provide information that one person’s experience can’t.  While individual comments and scores are useful, we coach people to look at consistent messages from the 360, not outliers. 

Therefore anonymity does not reduce the value of the feedback, and actually encourages people who would not have given feedback to do so.

Nassim Nicholas Taleb on individual and collective behaviour

June 2nd, 2010  |  Published in 360 Degree Feedback, 360 appraisal, Feedback, Giving 360 Degree Feedback, Leadership skills, Management skills, Measuring Performance, Strengths based 360, Team Performance, appraisal, motivation, positive psychology

In this video interview in today’s Guardian, the author of The Black Swan, Nassim Nicholas Taleb has some very interesting things to say about power, knowledge, beliefs and behaviours. 

From a workplace point of view, we see that people behave differently on their own, within their team, within the organisation, and then collectively, as an organisation, interacting with the outside world.   Collective beliefs and behaviours have a big influence on the individual, so when we’re looking to make individual or organisational change happen, we need to analyse and understand what those collective beliefs and behaviours are, and how they are skewing the behaviours of individuals. 

Maybe if we’d done that with the banking sector a few years ago, we could have avoided some of the consequences of the actions and groupthink that have led to the current economic problems.

360 Degree Feedback

720 Degree Feedback?

May 27th, 2010  |  Published in 360 Degree Feedback, 360 appraisal, 720 Degree Feedback, Employee engagement, Strengths based 360, motivation, positive psychology

This article in People Management describes a new ‘720 Degree Feedback’ being put in place at Cadbury’s, the confectionary manufacturer. 

Instead of getting 360 Degree Feedback from people you work with, the 720 Degree concept is about getting feedback from people outside work, friends, family, spouses, children. 

I would agree that there’s certainly a lot more to a person than their workplace behaviours, but I can’t help feeling that 720 degree feedback may be overspinning it, if that’s not labouring the metaphor!

Seriously though, as a tool for looking at emotional intelligence and relationship skills, 720 Degree- feedback from friends and family - may well have some value.  However, given the closeness of those relationships , I think that the feedback from friends and family may be either too complimentary, or a little bit too critical?  Is either of those something I would want to share with my manager? And what could it do to those personal relationships? 

I’d love to hear what you think.

360 Degree Feedback: ‘What’s strong?’, rather than ‘What’s wrong?’

April 28th, 2010  |  Published in 360 Degree Feedback, 360 appraisal, Coaching, Employee engagement, Feedback, Management skills, Measuring Performance, Strengths based 360, motivation, positive psychology

This is a great article summarising 10 Strategies for focusing on What’s Strong, rather than What’s Wrong, in counselling and therapy.

The Strategies could equally apply to making your 360 Degree Feedback, and the coaching and development that support it, positive and empowering for managers and employees.

You can do this by:

  • Defining what great performance looks like, and building your 360 Degree Feedback around the actions that indicate great performance
  • Focusing only on less strong behaviours if those behaviours are critical for the individual in doing their job and achieving their objectives.
  • Discussing with individuals how they can practically put their strengths to best effect when doing their job
  • Using strength based questions to solve problems, such as ‘How can you use this area of strength to bring about the results you want’?
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